My first nude outside experience happened when I was probably 10. My cousins challenged me to run around our grandma’s house nude. I took the dare and loved it. I’ve looked for chances to be nude outside ever since. Yet, being raised in a traditional family and now married to an excellent woman who was also raised conservatively I haven’t had many opportunities.
I’m naked around the house as much as possible, but that is becoming limited today as our daughter is getting old and our old-fashioned upbringing and thoughts of modesty are causing me to be clothed more around her. The cover up was causing me to go a little mad though, I needed to be naked someplace. I was doing stupid things, going naked in areas that if I was found I could get in trouble.
All that said, the wife and children were out of town this weekend, so I took the opportunity to visit a clothing optional resort nearby and try it out for a little while.
I ‘d two main issues going in, one of which had been comforted by read ing other posts on this forum. I was afraid of getting an erection. Didn’t happen, not even close. My other worry, and men you will value this, was that after swimming, exercise, or just being sex on beach and testicles shrivel up and I feel like I look as a five year old. I was frightened the anxiousness associated with my first encounter being naked openly would cause this to happen and I ‘d be self concious about perceived size. A quick test of the specific situation about five full minutes before I arrived affirmed that panic. I was anxious and so were the lads. However, after a fast tour with the owner and checking in for the day I was feeling pretty relaxed. Less worried about a first experience and more delighted with the chance to do something that I understood I needed to do. Without nervousness or hesitation I parked the car and used it as my locker. With folks walking around both clothed and nude and stripped off right there and headed for the pool.
And I am happy to report the boys were hanging loose, so panic number two turned out to be a non factor.
As for the visit itself, it was so so. I went alone, and while the people were friendly and said hello, most kept to themselves. There wasn’t much going on at the time. There were probably 30 to 40 folks round the pool and that was it. No one was in the hostel or hot tub, so the pool and lounge deck where the sole choices for socializing.
All in all is was a good encounter. Like most who post about their very first time, my nervousness was gone very fast. Now I just need to convince my wife it is wise for her to try it.